10 things of true friends

You should now something about your life, friends and the truth on them !!. And actually You are my friend forever….Here are the 10 stuffs to see whether you have a true and real friends or not

1. Think about what you can give to your Friends, it’s not about what you can get from the friendship.  Do not make friends just because to have fun.  Because if therefore, you are not true friendship.  Please value your friends as you want to be valued.

2. Please support your Friends.  Friends always encourage each other and support them so that together become the best, not fighting each other. He feels the same happiness when his friends successfully achieved what they wanted and desired and he does not feel like a competitor.

3. Willingness to forgive, do not let it ‘injured’ and developed into a bitterness as this will destroy the friendship.  Forgive the mistakes of your friends did, and do not let it the wound damage the relationship.

4. Do not see the mistakes they did. This is the only way to show how we care about them.  Do not leave your friends when they made a mistake.  Please be patience and guide them to change or to fix it.  Please be aware that nobody’s perfect.
5. Be a friend that reliable and fulfill the promise that you have said.

6. Do not try to control your friends. Friendship does not mean have always to be together.  It’s indeed will have great fun when you can always together with the people we love.  But remember, that our friends were not our own monopoly because they also have other friends beside us.  For that, do not feel that we have been betrayed when your friends interact with other friends. On the other hand, you can try to also make friends with them.  This way will make us and our friends more appreciate each others.

7. Always be there whenever happy or sad. Be happy when you are with them and when they are happy.  But do not only be there when they are happy.  When your friends are annoyed or mad with something, give them attention. The most needed thing from a friend is a pair of sympathetic ear and also want to understand their feelings.

8. Receive whatever what your friends are.  Do not demand our friends to react the same way as we always do. Appreciate them whatever it takes, including their decisions that they take which may not be appropriate with our wills.

9. Do not become “mouth leaking” (read: like to telling other people your friends’ secrets !!).  Please…Learn to keep your friends’ secrets !!

10. Do not let different opinions destroy your friendship. Suppose you are in a discussions with your friends and when the time you express your opinions that you think it’s true, but they don’t agree.  When that happens, do not continue to argue which this will only make you cranky.  Release your desires to win otherwise your friendship will be damaged thereby.