Tjenarvi.com – Many couples are forced to undergo long distance relationship (LDR) of necessity. But many are also in a relationship despite knowing that each live in cities or different countries. That is, decisions made on the relationship of their own choice.

What challenges faced by long-distance relationship, of course you already know. The first, of course, a matter of loyalty. Absence figures to make your partner get used to not see him. Over time, your feelings and expectations on the he will fade. Especially then you meet another person who can overcome your yearning.

Therefore you wonder, why there are also couples who successfully undergo long-distance relationship like this. If this is to ask your question, the answer is simple: the distance is not the cause of the failure of your relationship. You are the one who made the relationship fail. Therefore, LDR did not apply to everyone. Want to know what kind of person who does not fit through the LDR?

You love the intimacy
Holding hands, hugging each other while watching a romantic concert, or smell the distinctive scent of his body, that’s what you miss most from it. So, although you could see his face on the webcam as he reveals how you love him, there was still incomplete. Seeing other couples do PDA in front of you, too, would make you more miserable.

You do not know what you want to achieve from the relationship
In order for a long distance relationship can work, you and the he should know that the distance was not for good, or not limited. Simply put, if you do not make commitments to each other to meet again, and lived in the same city later on, better not take your time picking the savings to meet him in the other parts of the world.

You are not good at building a communication
The absence he is physically in your life is making you so often miss. Unfortunately you can not afford to pay the costs if the phone, and you’re not good at expressing emotions and your thoughts into words. If you’re alone with him when you can embrace each other without saying a word, is not the case when you deal with it over the phone. Highly unlikely to let the phone silence, without speech, is not it? If you want to get serious with him, you must learn to communicate better. If not, your relationship would be boring.

You had an affair
“Once a cheater, always a cheater” as they say. So, you do not believe in yourself that you can be loyal to him. Or, he remained loyal to you. Even if the he promised to change his behavior, you can not necessarily believe it 100 percent right? Can you sleep well last night, imagining the fun she was having fun with friends? Jealousy is the easiest way to derail a relationship. If you are unable to drive such suspicions were, well, just end your relationship.

You are not willing to sacrifice
With live far away, meaning you and she should live a different life, with people who are different. To “meet” on the phone or in cyberspace, you must first set the schedule. And this is not an easy thing. You must be willing to sacrifice the things you do on a regular basis to spend time with the him. If not, one of you will be deemed not want to commit.

You happy to be spoiled
Because he’s nothing near you, with whom you can bermanja-spoiled? Bermanja with girlfriends or with your brother, of course it’s different. With your male friends? You are just looking for trouble, because one of you usually will not treat yourself as a friend again.