Do not getting married

If you are already know how old you should getting married, then you should also consider this about Do not getting married because……….

1. Do not get married just because of property or wealth
It is completely useless living full of wealth and property without LOVE. Wealth can come and go at anytime. Misguided “LOVE” and short time “LOVE” can be obtained at any time.
But the TRUE LOVE, can not be purchased and obtained by property or wealth.

2. Do not get married because of amour
Amour is just like feel interested in each other, sympathy each other, crush on each other, all of these we called AMOUR which is often misconception as LOVE. AMOUR is not LOVE.
Amour can quickly changed by appearance, wealth, place and circumstances. Amour is blind, it does not last long and it’s not reliable. Real LOVE need to be tested in happiness and grief with open eyes.

3. Do not get married just because of appearance
Beauty from outside (face, body. Or boob or ass..?) is indeed beautiful, but can be fade due to age. We should take the priority of beauty is from the inside.

4. Do not married because of sobby
Compassion (sobby) is good and it is a must in our life. But it may not be a basis of a marriage. Compassion may be exhausted, it may be no more feel of compassion, but Love … it does not.
Basis or foundation of marriage is love, not a compassion or even sobby.

5. Do not married just for SEX satisfaction
Indeed, the clean sex, the sacred sex are important in our relationship. But it may not be as the priority goal in our marriage. Sex is just one of the parts of marriage.
The people who only pursue sex pleasure will feel disappointed and will be tricked by the trouble made by their own creation.

6. Do not get married because of family coercion
A Children must be kind to their family, but can not be surrendered in the case of marriage problem, if they are really wrong and you are right.
Pray and give explanation to them, do not with violence.

7. Do not get married because of age pressure or you are getting old
If your age is getting old and your age is increasing while your co-colleagues already have their own couple, people will start nervous (especially for women).
Many people just don’t think about, never consider it and just strikely get married. Avoid that action. Be patient and believe that God has been provide the best just for you.
Do not fear running out of quota (quota of couples?) and do not fear it has been expired.

8. Do not married for recompense
People who already made good things to you, we need to recompense and it’s good to recompense those people. But not with marriage.
One of the things that should be forgotten and it’s the most important, that is….

“Never marriage without understanding and preparation of real actions. Go get married according to the pattern of God’s plan.”

Rather than making mistakes and hardship, it’s better to wait for marriage.