This is a story about two best friends that is walking across the desert sand. In the way, they were fighting, and one of them slapping his friend. The one got slap, the heart was hurt, but with no speaking, he was writing on the sand: “TODAY, MY BEST FRIEND SLAP MY FACE.”

They were continue walking, until then find an Oasis, where they decided to take a bathe.  The friend who got slapped on his face and hurted heart, tried to swim but nearly swamp, and then successfully rescued by his friend.When he began to feeling sober and the feeling of fear has been gone, he was writing in a stone: “TODAY, MY BEST FRIEND SAVING MY LIFE.”
The friend who saved and also slapped his friend, asked: “Why after I hurt your heart, you wrote it out on the sand, and now why you write it on the stone?”

His friend answered with smile, “When a friend hurt our heart, we have to write it down on the sand so that the wind of forgiveness will come and blow and remove the things I wrote.  And if a something extraordinary happened, like you saved my life, we have to chisel it on top of our stones of heart, so that can not be lost blow by the wind.”

In this life, there is often come in different opinions and conflicts with the husband/wife/sweetheart, because there is a different perspective.  Therefore try to forget and forgive each other, and forget about past stories.  The benefits of continuous relationship may be far greater more than past disappointment. Nobody’s perfect.

Learn to write it on the sand…!! To forgive someone…

Learn to write it on the stone…!! To remember someone good deeds !!